How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You

Do you like a guy and want him to feel the same way towards you? Or for whatever reason, want a guy to fall in love with you? This is the perfect and effective way for a guy to fall in love with a girl, wih her doing the (subtle) legwork.Steps

Step 1 The first thing you must do is what you could call homework. You must ask around. Find out if he has a Myspace/Facebook/other social networking site. This is great for finding out what he's into, like music/films/general opinions. You can use this information to start up conversations later on.

Step 2 You must then find out things he likes about girls physically. Remember, most men will fall for your looks before your personality. Not shallow, true. If you're not confident about your looks, start working on it. Get rid of spots, lose those extra pounds, whatever. If you know his history of ex-girlfriends, or girls he's previously dated in the past, or better yet his "type" (blonde hair, environmentalist, curvy build etc), then SLOWLY relate to that. The social networking sites can be helpful here.

Step 3 Then you must acquire a simple form of communication. For example, the "hi-and-bye-friend", which is exactly as it sounds. Use mutual friends to your advantage here. If you see them talking, go over and join in. Your friend should introduce you, and voila! Now maintain the smiling and greetings every time you see him.

Step 4 When you next speak to him properly, steer the conversation around to the internet or computers, and ask if he has Instant Messenger.

Step 5 After that, you must go the extra mile. Stand out from the crowd. Do small things to get his attention, like if you already know him (albeit vaguely) make sure you are always there for him if he needs someone to talk to or if he needs to borrow something. Does he play sports? If so, you better get your butt on a bleacher with a towel, water bottle, and whatever else he needs. This way you're showing him you like him without telling him.

Step 6 Guys like to comfort girls, so let them feel manly! Seize control without them becoming aware by letting him comfort you through a hard time. Allow him think he made you feel better.

Step 7 Guys like girls that are always "keeping it real", so be natural. Keep them laughing, smiling, and happy. Don't attention seek or b***h about other people. Except maybe teachers/bosses.

Step 8 Once you get a guy to like you, try to let go a little TINY bit so they can come. Ask your friends for their opinions if he likes you if you cannot tell. Maybe flirt a little with other guys. Play hard-to-get, but always be honest.

Tips

• Avoid getting angry at him for stupid stuff, like hitting you with a ball or teasing you, when he means well. If he hurts you physically or emotionally, then it's okay to be angry.
• Compliment him. Guys love this!
• Don't flirt with his close friends. This will just end up with fights between mates.
• Above all, if the guy doesn't love you for your personality, then he is NOT really in love with you!
• Never keep hanging on to him when he isn't interested. Men find it annoying when you show up at their house and just won't leave.
• Learn to take a hint. If the man starts doing something different while you are talking to him, shut up. Wait until he starts talking to you again or quietly help him with what he's doing. Don't try to force his attention to you.
• Don't put him in a compromising position. Men care about how you feel, even if they are not interested in you romantically. Don't force them to answer a question if they look uncomfortable with it.
• Be very patient. Men sometimes like more than one girl at a time. (If this is the case then he is not ready for a relationship and should therefore be put in the friend category. Fun to hang around with, but not deserving of the cookies.)
• Don't appear/be too easy, and yet don't be stuck-up and snobbish. A man doesn't want to think he's never getting any sex, but he also doesn't want to get it that easy. Guys like a challenge.
• Do not get between him and his friends. A man will always put his mates before you, unfortunately you need to accept this, or his friends might think of a way to get rid of you.
• Don't say you love him if you don't really mean it, they might become obsessive. Also, don't say those three little words until you reckon he loves you too.
• Don't EVER cheat. If he loves you and you don't love him, tell him that in a calm and caring manner. People get hurt when a man's ego gets smacked down.
• Be what he needs. Be sure to have that something he cannot live without, you don't have to be pretty to be precious.
• Don't put on too much make-up. Xmas trees are not hot. Natural is the best.
• Don't get an attitude when you see something on T.V. In fact, don't pull an attitude for any dumb reason. Men think you are immature if you have an attitude.
• Respect him if he respects you. Do not shoot down everything he says if he listens to every word you say. This is pretty much both ways.
• Don't get mad if he says your sports team is s**t. You will always be more important than sports.
• Don't be the jealous girl. Guys hate it and it makes you look like you aren't secure with yourself.
• Blush. Or pretend to. It's been scientifically proven that girls who blush when looked at make men fall in love with them.
• Don't make him feel worthless by ranting on and on about your exes. If you say what you dislike in your exes, he might be put off, as most men have the same faults, like leaving the toilet seat up or biting their nails.

Warnings

• Don't look like a stalker! Therefore, only tell a few close friends you've been on his social networking site, or better yet, none at all.
• Don't change your style too abruptly. It's never good to go from brunette Girl-Next-Door to a total blonde Glamazon. You'll look fake or like a poser.
• Be cautious how heavy you are when allowing him to cheer you up (Step 6). For example pregnancy or a stalker ex isn't particularly attractive. Keep it real by complaining about homework or a poorly pet. Guys don't like commitment issues.
• Don't be manipulative or use him to make someone jealous. These can backfire very easily.
• Don't pretend like everything is okay if it's not. If he really is your man, he'll help you through it. He will understand that you have your bad days, and you need him to help you get through them.